Thursday, July 31, 2014

money or love? when choosing a partner in life, what is your standard or guide to be follow, your heart or your mind? Many people say or most of us girls say that we follow our hearts than our mind, we always say that I love him even if he don't have the resources, because we are so idealistic, we believe in fairytale and a happily ever after stories. But in reality in our days now , I suggest we girls must be practical. choose a guy that have a stable job, that can feed  and send your future children to a good school. The guy that can give you a better life, because love is a learning process , I believe that you can learn to love a guy when you have a comfortable life with him. Cause as a saying goes,"ang pag-ibig kahit sa siwang ng bintana lumalabas kapag wala ng makain". So how would you choose love over money? If in the end love will jump out of the window when your stomach is empty. And take note, mind is higher than our heart. So, what do you think guys?                                                         

My life as a student mom is not that easy, I have to make sure that everything is OK at home and send my children in their school  before I go to the University. I have to review very well for it will be very embarrassing to my instructor and classmates if i got a fail grade, especially to my husband whom I know that even  he don't talk he expect a lot from me. I have to act as a mature person every time I'm in the classroom, though there are times that I feel like I'm young again as influenced of my teenage classmates.When my children are all asleep at night, that was the time I can do my homework, researches, and reports. More often  I review my lessons while I'm doing the household chores. Sometimes going to University is my escaping goat to my problems at home, I see to it that I'm always busy on my studies. Thanks to all my classmates for being supportive, and to my family who always there for me. There's a lot of things in school which is new to me, I feel like a grade student once again. But I know I can do this, I have the courage and self-confidence. My family is my inspiration especially my three lovely daughters, this is for their future.